My whole life, I developed this lousy paradigm to become as independent as possible. We feel restrained to do a lot of things from a very young age.
- If I need to buy a new bag, I need to ask my parents for it.
- If I need to go on a holiday trip, I need to seek permission for it.
- If I need money, I need to request it.
- If I need to take leave, I need to place a pleasing letter for it.
I understand all these manners are in place to cultivate organized and safe living.
- The parents do it to protect us.
- The school does it educate us.
- Organizations expect it to have us participate in the mission, whichever they are on.
The only answer to escaping from manners that restrained me would be to earn a lot of money or to own/lead a business where I write rules. For which there won't be any rules to order me. I would be independent.